Syrup making in an outdoor evaporator, old iron spiles, sap dripping into galvanized buckets with lids to keep the squirrels out. Standing around with people we barely know (our neighbors to the west) it feels so easy to be ourselves. To laugh, to throw the slimy tennis ball for their spaniel, and lick syrup from a paper cup, still hot, unselfconsciously. We share conversation the way two friends might a sandwich, snatching juicy bits here and there while Bean crawls about on the wood pile and gets licked by the dog.
â€œDoggy,â€ he says, over and over again. â€œDoggy.â€ And we canâ€™t help but laugh with wonder and scoop him up. Heâ€™s starting to talk!
All weekend a friend has been visiting, and our house is full of the quiet harmony that occurs when someone you love is around. An extra set of hands. Dishes done. She laughs at all my husbandâ€™s jokes and and Bean adores her. Between us we've probably had six bars of chocolate. And in the moments in between everything else, weâ€™ve been sorting out our souls over cups of tea or red wine , talking until weâ€™ve gathered many bright words like handfuls sea glass.
Hair cuts today (I got bangsâ€”see above), and playing in the late evening sunlight at the waterfront, chasing Bean about the lawn and drinking up the light.